By Tan Shiang Shiang Embracing the Unknown
I had a lots of awesome moments in my study journey and it enrich my life. As I stood on the stage at the graduation ceremony, the phrase “one minute on stage, ten years of hard work off stage” resonated deeply within me. For many, this five-minute speech may seem like just another routine part of graduation. However, for me, those fleeting moments encapsulated five and a half years of my life—a testament to the challenges I had faced and the person I had become.
Reflecting on the day I first stepped through the college gates, I remember feeling a mix of excitement and apprehension about what lay ahead. The future felt uncertain, but I was determined to embrace the journey. It was during my college years that I truly grasped the meaning of the saying, “reading thousands of books is not as valuable as traveling thousands of miles.” The experiences I gained, both inside and outside the classroom, shaped me in ways I never anticipated.
Overcoming Obstacles
My journey was not without its difficulties. Despite my less-than-stellar grades, I refused to let them define my identity. I understood that I would need to invest more effort and time than my peers, but I never viewed this as a waste. Instead, I saw each challenge as an opportunity to grow and prove to myself that I could achieve greatness. From being a student who struggled with learning and often went unnoticed, I have transformed into a first-class honors graduate representing my classmates.
The Support of Others
As a student from a Chinese independent school, I encountered skepticism and doubt throughout my life. Questions like “Can your grades really allow you to choose an independent school?” and “Aren’t you afraid of failing?” often echoed in my mind. In the face of these doubts, I clung to one powerful belief: “I do not want to give up on myself.” The unwavering support of my parents, friends, and teachers was instrumental in my journey. They believed in me even when I struggled to believe in myself, providing the encouragement I needed to keep moving forward.
The Thrill of the Journey
Throughout my learning journey, I lacked natural talent and external advantages. Many people doubted my decision to invest time and money in a field where I was not inherently gifted. Yet, with the steadfast support of my loved ones and my own determination, I reached this pivotal moment. The person who once struggled to find their footing now stands ready to compete, thanks to relentless effort and dedication.
The road ahead will undoubtedly present more uncertainties, and even with my recent qualification, I must continue to give my all. While I may not know the outcome of the competition, I treasure the process of this journey. It is the thrill of the unknown and the challenge of pushing my limits that make this experience so fulfilling.
A Lighthouse for Myself
Standing on the graduation stage, I feel no regrets. I have navigated through the fog of life, cutting through obstacles to embrace this brilliant moment. I have become my own unique lighthouse, guiding myself through darkness. I have learned that challenges are not barriers to be feared, but rather opportunities for growth and self-discovery. I am my own guide, and I will continue to confront the impossible, for that is where true growth lies.
Inspiring Others
As I reflect on my journey, I realize that my story is not just about my personal growth, but also about the power of perseverance to inspire others. By sharing my experiences, I hope to encourage those who face similar challenges to never give up on their dreams. It is my belief that every obstacle we overcome, every goal we achieve, has the potential to uplift and motivate those around us.
I am reminded of the Chinese proverb, “The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.” My journey has been a testament to this truth, and I am grateful for every challenge that has helped shape me into the person I am today. As I move forward, I am committed to using my experiences to uplift and empower others, to be a beacon of hope for those who are struggling, and to show that with determination and self-belief, anything is possible.
Be Inspired. Be Informed.